Author and co-founder of The International Congress of Youth Voices Dave Eggers writes in today’s New York Times of the present void of culture at the White House. He concludes his observations with these words: “with art comes empathy. It allows us to look through someone else’s eyes and know their strivings and struggles. It expands the moral imagination and makes it impossible to accept the dehumanization of others. When we are without art, we are a diminished people–myopic, unlearned and cruel.”
On June 22, the day she traveled to view a shelter for immigrant children in Texas, Melania Trump was photographed in a jacket that read in capital letters “I REALLY DON’T CARE, DO U?”
Those of us who are bewildered or angered by the message on Mrs. Trump’s jacket have some options.
For those of us who try and live by a “love our neighbor” or golden rule guideline of “doing unto others as we would have them do to us,” this means channeling our concern and outrage in a constructive and civil manner.
We need to focus on building compassionate community.
- Find out the facts and discern the implications those facts hold for the outcomes we seek.
- Speak out on behalf of those outcomes with our voices and our votes.
Here are worthy outcomes that should matter to us all:
- A habitable planet
- Health care access
- Quality education
- Public safety
- Economic well-being
- Enrichment of experience
- Problem-solving capacity
Here are a few current amplifications about a few of the outcomes we should be seeking.
- Public safety: requires realistic laws that are humane, consistent administration of those laws, and practices that promote community caring, versus driving people into the shadows where bad things happen.
- Economic well-being: too many people can’t afford decent, much less desirable, shelter or other basics and most don’t have enough money for a $500 emergency.
- Freedom: when we have a President who regularly scapegoats an entire race, a religious practice, a political party, a nation, or a group within his own party that disagrees with him, our freedom is being threatened.
We need to speak out against wasting resources. Wasting energy on trying to bring back coal, failing to use the power of collaboration when working with world leaders, undermining the healthcare network to take aim at the other political party while ignoring the need to make accessible healthcare for all people a reality, failing to fund the education of our young, disregarding the plight of our aging poor, calling all regulation bad when facts prove that some regulation is vital to our future — all of these actions are harmful and expensive.
People in positions of influence have the opportunity to bring people into positive political action. The Postcard Storm provides bipartisan guidelines for political action to people in that seek healthy, caring community life. If you would like for me to help with a plan for your group, let’s talk.
I believe we need a better way of treating people seeking asylum from dangers in their homeland. Imprisoning men and women seeking safety because they have crossed our border without permission is bad enough in itself. Compounding that meanness by separating those traveling as families from their children is awful behavior unbecoming to any country, much less the United States of America. We forget our original greatness was founded by immigrants pursuing a better life in the face of life-straining obstacles. This awful behavior of imprisonment and separation on the part of the party in power must change; we are losing our soul as a country unless we improve our treatment of people, regardless of what their documented status may be. We should have zero tolerance for unkindness. There are better ways to solve problems and manage dilemmas than throwing people in prison because they are seeking safety and taking away their children in the process.
I don’t know if Congress with its largely male composition can imagine what it would be like to be a young single teenage girl who is pregnant or a mature married woman who is pregnant and for whatever reason didn’t want to go forward with that pregnancy. Perhaps the young girl is terrified and traumatized by the prospect of carrying a baby to term. Perhaps the mature woman has a husband newly dying of cancer and three children already on the ground who need her help. There are many possibilities.
Regardless of one’s opinion about abortion, women and girls need access to reproductive healthcare, whatever their circumstances. One half of babies are born with their deliveries paid for by Medicaid. We need to do a better job for our people, and that means making reproductive healthcare a priority. Punishing people by making it hard to access reproductive healthcare not only is cruel to the people in need of it, it hurts all of us.
Thanks to you and your family for the remarkable energy and focus you gave to your campaign. I know the misstep of the last couple of weeks must be very painful; I thought the email from your wife that followed that was full of humanity. I had given my small contribution to both yours and Julie’s campaigns. I had been, as a friend said, dithering back and forth between voting for you or Julie Oliver, looking for who was most likely to have a bit of a chance in the race against Roger Williams. I think Julie probably does, just because if there is a wave that will bring out non-traditional voters, in most cases, it’s likely to be the wave of women. That said, in the end, I cast my vote for you – because the email sent under your wife’s signature after the dodgy business of taking on Julie’s campaign the way your campaign did– spoke to me of the hard, hard work you two undertook (appearing in many living rooms and at many doorsteps to talk with people, including my doorstep where you spoke with my adult son and in a neighbor’s living room where I heard you speak things I believe). The reality is when we are working fiercely hard we all sometimes make mistakes. Most, however, don’t apologize, even if it is through a woman; and sometimes it just takes a woman in our society to offer the human face. Thanks to you and your wife for your courage and stamina, and I plan to join you in campaigning for Julie.
Mary (Molly) Sharpe
Friends for Civil Action website: https://mollysharpe.wordpress.com
Senator John Cornyn| Senate Majority Whip| 517 Hart Senate Office Building| Washington, D.C. 20510
Senator Cornyn, as a person of considerable power, please enact universal gun checks now for the safety of our school children. Some people are just not equipped to handle guns.
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Re: Separating Children from Parents as a Deterrent Tactic is Wrong
Whether or not we agree on immigration policy, we should be able to agree that as a tactic to deter immigration, it is wrong to separate children from parents. John F. Kelly said on NPR last week most of the people who cross the border illegally “are not bad people. They’re not criminals. They’re not MS-13” gang members.” Stop this immoral separation.
Re: A Culture of Bad Behavior is Bad for Us All
Whatever our political preferences, we should not overlook bad behavior in our elected officials and those who represent them. Firing by tweet is wrong. Offloading blame is wrong. Disrespect of human dignity is wrong. Calling people names because they are affiliated with a different political party is wrong. Those in power need to protest on all their constituents’ behalf.
Re: Ignoring Environmental Hazards is Bad for Us All
Fifty years ago, the Stanford Research Institute delivered a report titled, Sources, Abundances and Fate of Gaseous Polluters. While what to do is a matter of debate, ignoring the impact of pollution puts us all in peril. Pay attention to pollution.
Re: Costly Facts to Ignore
Internet searches quickly reveal from multiple, credible sources: 1. More than half of households in the U.S. lack $500 for an emergency and 2. Approaching half of children born in the U.S. have their deliveries paid for by Medicaid, because their parent(s) are below the poverty line. Yes, we can improve our social services network, but not by cutting it back. The reality of poverty and fragility in our country isn’t going away without government paying attention to our environment, our health, and our public education system. Do what is right, and invest in your people.
Re: Choosing Who to Help is Morally Wrong
For those who have a faith or secular life practice that respects the call to love our neighbor, we don’t have the choice of helping only those who behave as we think they should. In other words, it’s not right to only give health care to those who will work. It is right, however, to improve conditions so that more people will be equipped for work. Less government isn’t a reliable option when more people than ever need help in America.
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Something we all do is eat. Getting food safely to the table involves a chain of people and complex legislation. To learn more about what’s involved, check out: www.FarmAndRanchFreedom.org. Once again, the Episcopal Public Policy Network proved to be for me an excellent resource on how to act. The information below shows you how to join the Episcopal Church in urging the U.S. House of Representatives to reject their current farm bill draft and develop a “bipartisan, evidence-based bill.” The quotes are mine, highlighting how valuable and needed legislation that is bipartisan and evidence-based (YES!) is.
My son Will Sharpe brought the attached story to my attention: https://www.chronicle.com/interactives/state-of-conflict. It does feel as if our lives are under siege from the far right. Reading this reminds me of the importance of: “nevertheless, she persisted.” I live in hope that Republicans will put down their far right agenda and pick up a position of becoming problem solvers; meanwhile, I hope Democrats will become increasingly committed to being the party of our conscience. We can’t ignore politics. We raindrops, reminding politicians we are part of their constituencies, need to work daily to spread practices of kindness, which means respecting diversity. This isn’t just about social justice; it’s about humankind.